‘nobody is prefect !’ As humans all of us do commit our share of mistakes, and our mistakes infact act as our lessons. We learn from our past, and improve. That is also a reason we learn history! In short… ’It is human to err’ and it is 5n if you falter as long as you learn from your mistakes and don’t repeat them again…
I well I hate going wrong! I hate people challenging my decision…and I myself never regret on any decision I have made and I often suggest this to olive too that never regret your decision, spend time forming it but once formed stick to it against the hardest of situations! Hey btw ‘decisions’ are different than ‘opinions’…which you can for sure change! so even if there were another bettr option which I might not have choosen, complaining to my decision by me is a strict no-no!
I hate commiting mistakes! Weird huh?? But dats how I am…And the more I hate making a mistake, the more I messup with things. Besides if you are amongst the people who have tried to prove me wrong, you will know,if every you have succeeded….know this I do get annoyed but I dun show instead I apologize immediately!
I will feel too bad for going wrong that i try to do all I can, to mend my mistake not just learn from it…I feel guilty and it is not that easy for me to forgive myself for it! And if that were not enough, I believe once I have not acted in the most appropriate way, the best thing that can be done is admit your mistake, and work hard to repay! I was really cool with this however that I do keep the guts to say yes I have gone wrong even though I hate it, and do something to coverup for my mistake!
Its nice for sure if you can take responsibilities for things that you do but there is an issue here!
Quite sometimes in life, issues and events that happen are not that big. In the daily routine of yours as we move about, we have our many encounters with different people, different situations, and if there is a situation involving me in it and it goes wrong, I feel I m at a fault! Ahh… heard the hindi idiom…’Taali ek haath se nahi baajti’? sooo…if der is something rong I could have acted more sensibly huh?and I did not…omg…wot a fool am i…I must say…*I m sorry*
Sorry is a such a word, that we use really often in our lives..ek sorry bolne mein kya jaata hai wud think i?!
But now I realize ki yarr…jaata hai..bahot kuch jaata hai when you bloody say a s-o-r-r-y!
Today the saying ‘to err is human, to forgive divine’ has an addition to it….it goes ‘to err is human, to forgive divine, but to admit your mistake is a blunder!’ X-P
If you say sorry, quite you sound to people (err…unless ppl around you do make a lil bit use of the itsy-bitsy brain they have!i mean this never happens between me, guggs, jay, shwe , ush and other frens of mine) as a person who is soo wrong that he has no option left in hiding and defending his mistake that he has to actually admit it! Wot nonsense?
Say sorry and it comes all upon you, ppl dun think if you are really at a fault, and how big or small is ur mistake! my god the hazards of not thinking are growing by leaps and bounds every moment!!soo much for a seemingly harmless sorry!
Well, I learnt there is needed a right amount of balance here too! May be say sorry when you are really really wrong, and to ppl who do have the sense to understand…yarr… why can’t ppl jus respect the fact that it takes courage to admit your mistakes…seriously why cant we accept good, why are we soo cynical? Such pessismists?!
*this blog is all thanks to a brainless and super dumb friend of mine ho made me feel soo pathetic for saying sorry to her!*
*Sigh*
hahahah.. thank god i ain't tht person...
ReplyDeletecoz i just realised namu betaaa.. we have NEVER said sorry to each other.. like NEVER!..
and.. Oh.. i love u :D :P <3 ;-)
n i m sooo glad! just hope we remain the best of frens for ever >>:D<<
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