COMPLAINTS

We are all so well aware of the fact that,life moves on. Each of us have our own share of ups and downs. In the end everythings gets fine! but only if knowing was enuf!


Small things, small events, small are the moments dat pass, few of dem make us smile and when things dun turn as we had expected them to, we have on thing to make- a complaint!


Expecting things is a quality we inherit on being born as humans! :P
We say one must not expect, but like the many things we jus know but we havnt followed in the true sense, we expect!
We expect ppl around us to behave the way we hav judged dem, dey way we want dem to, the way dey cud make us feel good rather correct even if we ourselves wudnot have behaved in such a way! No mattr how silly this seems now, wen wot we expect doesnot happen, we feel upset and we den have a COMPLAINT!


Wen we dun forget to advice others to chillax on der issues, we often forget our own words when the tables turn! Wen we falter in our duties in a relationship, we are human...wen others go wrong they dun care! wen we messup things, we xpect others to understand but d person we hold a complaint against should possibly have no reason for his behaviour according to us! It is sad but true, our nature as humans of dis century is very cynical!
We just cannot accept that may be ppl around us r not dat bad, maybe dey have other things to do dan just annoy us or hurt us. We dun allow relations to have basic trust and understanding in dem. We find it so hard to accept we may also be WRONG! We find it easier to Complain and even more unfortunate is the fact we just complaint never do something about it!


A very important truth however is that, you dun generally complaint to strangers
(errr....about ur relationship problems, railways, electricity complaints go to useless strangers) you complain to and against only ppl you have given a place in your heart, against ppl ho matter to you :)

Wen you try hard and things dun turn the way you want them to , you complain! :
When you feel you are being taken for granted you complain, wen you are hurt maybe but you dun wanna take a revenge, wen you dun wanna hurt the 1 anyhow who has caused even discomfort or even pain you complain! Just to convey 'Hey! dun do dat! It hurts!'
You dun do dat just for ny1, you do it for the ones u dun wanna lose. you do it to convey, your feelings....you do it to reach!

(Accusing a loved 1 is however rong unless things have really gone messy, bcoz to accuse and to complain are two different words to have two different meanings!)


So complain but wid care, wen needed....Dun get on to the nerves of the other person!
Realize all dat you know. learn to FORGIVE!


It is not that tough to make new relations but very difficult to maintain them, very easy to lose them but important to understand it is just and just dese relations u need alwz in life....even if you have a complain
*keep smiling*
take care