~extras~

We live in a society...so we keep bumping into many people every now and then..... A few of these people form the group we like...few others form the group we don't....and these are the ones we like to give most our attention to! :) but that happens with a lil difficulty due to another group pf people called *the extras*
we have aunties and uncles and people of our age and those younger to us....all come together to form this group of people who incessently keep speaking crap on us, about us, keep suggesting, keep advising! i hate dem! X-P

i dunno why people love watching others fall in problems, they enjoy the struggle of others more than their own work, such people are the ones i find really irritating! i hate people who enjoy tamashas on the expense of any body elses misery! if a road accident or even a small tiff in two individuals on the street happens, there are hardly few who get involved and help sort the matter but many other who just stand and stare,,,,,,"arre, baap re, pata hai uss admi ne usse inni galiya di" for god sake apna kaam karo, why this behaviour?

then there are the homely extras...aunties and uncles born in the world with one mission.....disturbing you....if you do good, they have an issue in their heads, yet come praising you, and addressing you like they have been your mentors and you have paid their efforts behind the success you achieved! when i was in school and whenevr i won a contest or cem first in exams...these extras come and start pestering....."beta, mummy ko bolo party de" you want it go and ask my mom, stop wasting my time! when i slogged through the night did you stay up with me, party....my foot! paise jhaad pe ugte hai?

the next part....it would not have even been such a big issue had these extras stopped at just this... success and failure which are opposites strike everyone! in times you have done well, the extras keep praising you, and make you as examples to their kids ( i really pity kids whose parents expect them to be like sum1 else than just being them selves, such parents who do not respect the indiviuality of their kids are so not cool! it different asking sum1 to be inspired from an other person and its different to kepp making sh*tty comparisons between two different people!) and if you don't do well they disturb you even more....

each SSC or HSC student is troubled unnecessarily by neighbours, relatives and other available extras to tell them,....beta this year ka hardwork is gonna make your life...bullsh*t! i scored very good percentage in both 10th and 12th and i dun think those scores did help me evolve in life in any way! chill people take a break! if you feel like advising so much...start writing a blog....jus dun trouble the ones around you!

yes we live in a society and its really good caring for others and helping each other, but advise should be given when asked for....be compassionate, show empathy and sympathaise..........plz dun act like annoying extras!

take care
keep smiling! :)

*p.s. i hope this blog is smaller :P