*emotional attyachar!*

Ever been hurt by someone who you really cared for.. i have.....and it hurts a lot! :(

Its really bad--the feeling! ouch...

There is something i learnt lately however, that i want to share.....

We humans are responsible (response+ able). we have the response-ability to the situations around us. we cannot change others to a great extent most of the times, but we can....choose our response....and this thought helped me bring so many realisations! all people are good, like i always say, and all of them are different! each individual doesnot react to the same situation as you would. and it is so silly expecting them to do so. when we wish others to understand, we must first ourselves be understanding to their situations! happpiness is something we all want, and we and just we are responsible for our happiness! thats dat! how smart is it, to leave your happiness, which is the reason you do all the struggle in your life, at the mercy of others?

if somebody speaks well to me...i'll be happy!

if someone doesnot act like he cares....i cry.... i feel so bad.....what a big fool am i?

there is no sense in me wasting my energy and moments of my life that are never to return sulking over things not worth sulking! : its not about what others are not doing! or what others should be doing....its all about how i choose to react to the situations given to me......

i can complain today to friends....call some1 insensitive or unreasonable....but thats so wrong! I m failing to give a proper reaction, and blaming others for not being caring and hurting me is rubbish! nobody can hurt me till i permit them too on an emotional level, be it my relative, my colleague, society or even my friends!

It is important to be proactive! I and just I am responsible for my self and all that happens to me! :)

so...yey! i m happy........... this realisation means a lot to me....

hope this does sound meaningful to you too

take care

keep smiling

you r responsible! :D